Hello. Mary here. I’m getting married in January, which, admittedly, is not the best time of the year for fresh flowers. Sure, florists can get just about anything year-round, but there are still a few delicate beauties that have to be enjoyed in season (or at least close to it). Plus, I know the only outdoor plants that I’ll be able to count on are the evergreens.
Still, I’m determined to have a flower-full wedding, so they’re definitely the budget priority (who wants limo service anyway?). I’ve been toying with the idea of arranging at least some of the flowers myself. As you might have noticed by now, I’m a bit flower-obsessed (see my earlier Memorial day blog), so I think it would be great fun to take part in the flower arranging.
I’d probably leave the bridal party bouquets to the professionals, but I’m interested in making a few arrangements for the reception. Many upscale grocery stores have a good selection of high-quality flowers at reasonable prices, and I figure less expensive flowers = more flowers at the reception, right?
One of my concerns is that my arrangements tend to be a bit messy (see earlier mentioned blog). I have a good time and am generally pleased with the results, but this usually works out better with simple garden flowers. I’ve been looking into books on flower arranging, and Simply Elegant Flowers With Michael George caught my eye:
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The simple arrangements in this book are inspiring, and, more importantly, they seem doable.
Does anyone have experience with arranging flowers for big events? Have any advice or helpful resources?
Wish me luck!
Mary













Hi, I'm new to this site and I found your post. I am a floral designer by trade, so maybe I can help.
PattyIf you can find out the mechanics of whatever it is you want to make, that's half the job. It is very important for a few reasons. It will make them last all day and they will look alot better if they are set right. Your idea about the supermarket flowers is a good one, But done correctly, you will use less than you think. Sometimes depending on the person, you can ask for a specfic flower and if they have access to it, they will order it for you. Feel free if you have any questions!
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